When I look around and noticed how people communicate with each other, then you realize that something is wrong with those skills in nowadays society. Can say even those skills are absent and disappeared. The most disturbing is –that there is disrespectfulness, no listening, most of the people using yelling, any kind of an effective relationship: mocking also, criticisms, selfishness, control, lack of emotional intimacy, family conflicts, neglect, comparisons, roles.
So here what i want to say is i think better effective communication keys are :
1. Quality time- spent time together
2. use more i statements and less you statements.
3.be specific
4.avoid mindreading- you dont know what you partner think
5.listen without blaming and interacting, also without defense.
6.express your negative thoughts and positive thoughts.
7.accept others person thoughts, even if you do not agree
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