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Kas head suhted (esi)vanematega on olulised, aga sugulastega?? Do you get well along with your relatives?

View years ago, I didn't consider it necessary to value my ancestors and relatives, in general, genealogies. In my opinion, these people just were, but who did not care about me. Because I was not ready to deal with relatives and family members to find out the hidden things. Being now In this regard, I discovered a lot and found out about relatives. How did my family life begin? For example, the story began with the fact that it was exchanged for the Swedish dudes for hunting dogs, and this Swedish dude took a wife from here, married a baby. Her wife died, a new one The woman who did not tolerate this little boy and beat her. Yea. What I want to say is that these stories are really exciting and even more exciting to create new relationships with the family, put them in their place, feel the fear they felt. I also get more understand the anxiety why some of them are particularly anxious. In particular, all these affairs of the relatives teach themselves to be forgiven and to forgive and agree that they have done their best. Now I have to deal with myself t give the best and keep the relationship here. Because they give strength and support. I understand that my theme is more to show love for the world.
What, however, has been given to relatives? It has taught me to be more open, loving, tolerant and better person. Thanks to this I have found the way for myself. I believe that without my ancestors I would not be, and therefore I would be grateful to them.
'Mõned aastad tagasi ei pidanud ma vajalikuks väärtustada oma esivanemaid ja sugulasi,üleüldse sugupuud.Minu arvates need inimesed lihtsalt olid, aga kes see ei huvitanud mind.Miks- sest ju ma polnud valmis tegelema sugulastega ja sugupuuga, et teada saada varjatuid asju.Olles nüüd selles osas avatum, olen väga palju avastanud ja sugulaste kohta teada saanud.Kuidas algas mu mu peresuguvõsa nt.Ühesõnaga lugu algas sellest, et vahetati rootsi ori jahikoerte vastu ja see rootsi ori võttis siit naise ,abiellus sai lapse.Ta naine suri ,tuli uus naine,kes seda väikest poissi ei sallinud ja peksis teda.Jne.Mida ma tahan öelda, et tegelikult need lood on põnevad ja veel põnevam on luua uued suhted suguvõsaga, panna end nende asemele , tunda seda hirmu ,mida tundsid nemad.Saan ka rohkem aru ärevusest, miks miks nt mõni neist eriti ärev on.Eelkõige kogu see sugulaste värk õpetab iseennast tundma ja andestama ning leppima, et nemad andsid endast parima.Nüüd pean mina endast parima andma ja suhteid hoidma siin.Sest nemad annavad väe ja toetavad.Saan aru, et minu teema on rohkem näidata armastust maailmale.
Mida aga on andnud sugulastega suhtlemine? See on mind õpetanud avatumaks, armastavamaks ,sallivamaks ja paremaks inimeseks.Tänu sellele olen leidnud tee iseendani.Ma usun, et ilma esivanemateta mind poleks ja seetõttu ma en tänulik neile.

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