1.quality time with yr kids.Be happy with yourself.Do job what you love to do.Find more time to spend yr kids.
Try to find and focus only them.Even 10min is enough ,if you are totally focused only them.They need your attention.
Make a deal , and agreement, when you have time for them.Keep it up,dont cheat!
2.let your child to have a purpose , and let them have responsibility.They need yr support.
Give attention to each child.Every child is different, so give them possiblity to find what they love most.!
3.be respectable and try to use reflection speech, also listening just listen, what they have to say.
4.also reflect emotions example: i feel like you are sad, cause we have to leave.You can be sad and disappointing, you can feel it.Its ok to feel it sad, angry what ever negative feeling.Can i hug you.
5.give a space(dependence time to them) to them .
6.play with them
7.be just next then
8.lot of emphaty and hugs,kisses , touching, even if they are teenager.
9.be patience
10.be calmy
11.acitivity
12.loyality
13.teach them how to manage conflicts or how to work with group
14.to be creative
15.let them be kids, so they can get dirty, so what, yu can wash clothes.
16.commiting
17.love
18.bed time story
19.if they feel sad or they start crying, let them cry.I know it sometimes annoying,but they need to show emotions and it helps them to calm down.
Be there and popp them.Give a hug or just support.
20.better try to use word STOP than No!!
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