Special edition-what exactly man think, and what think women? Why men are from Mars and women from Venus?why its so hard to understand, what man think?
Many research has been shown that there is a difference between women and man brain constructor. Although those researchers describe concrete differences, we cannot say, what they exactly mean.
Generally, know that fact women uses both of side brain at the same time, and man is using one by one each time. It means man can use only left(language) or right one (sold the problem).
Example man can handle feelings if he solves the problems quietly- it means the man is like a hunter and when he adapts his rolls, he also manages such kind of feeling his own self like angry, scared, losing.
A woman is adapted take -care roll- it means she had learned how do express her feeling, and emotions, and if she gets some problem, then she discuss it with her family members. This difference is coming from childhood already- cause example if i had been learned that i can share my feelings with my friends and parents, then in the future ill trust them and i know i can share, cause they care and they support, but if compare this to how people raised boy like in 25-30. y back, then usually some parents used a lot (avoidant) behavior- it means when a little boy fell and started to cry, then parents told him to stand up and don't cry, cause you are the man, and he supposed to cry We all know man don’t cry- quotes even I know one movie –called The men don’t cry”.But we all are humans, and we need to express feelings, this is the way how we learn - its start from childhood.Cause when a little girl fell, then they run to her and start to giggle.
Where does this type of avoidant behavior come from? Usually, it is grounded in a deep fear of trusting another person. You feel that your partner is never going to understand you anyway and that they wouldn't love you if only they knew who you truly are.
An avoidant person does not erase boundaries or change their values or beliefs for the sake of others. They are unable to trust other people, they dislike confrontations, and they have control issues.
To resolve avoidance behavior you need to see a professional therapist who specializes in these issues so they can get resolved once and for all. Don’t expect a miracle when working with a therapist. It is hard work and can take years to resolve hidden issues.
So little girls brain is developed to be more direct to communicate state.
And boys are developing more to solve problems, to himself express sports activities( running, playing football)
So girls are starting to talk a lot, but boys get an impulse to do more activities.
The woman nerve tissue let to develop language system earlier.
The different scenes of the brain :
So usually man brain can make to contact billion of nerve bounds between emotions and activities.This means if a man is freaking out, then he needs to do something. And the first aid for priority is to find solutions. We can say also that women are starting to sold problems, but first, they need to talk about feelings, and then solutions.
So basically women have billion nerve bond between the feeling center and speaking center.
usually, the brain difference shows up already at earlier ages.
Many of research has been shown and also there is an experiment about that fact.
ill describe this experiment a little:
It was about toddler, toddlers mother and how toddler act, when mother entire to the same room, but not gonna give attention to her child.
Se could only stay close to baby( there was glass between them).This experiment shows hows act boy and hows girl.
The baby boy started to crawl immediately to get to close his mother.
He wanted to get picked up by the mother, so he started to scratch this glass wall.
But little girl reaction was, she started to shout and she even didn't try to get his mother.
So this is the really big difference between women and man. And this is also the reason, why its so hard to understand each other.
But at least we should try it, and its really respectable if you just listen to your partner and just support.
Mars and Venus together forever, Jonh Gray
i recommend you to also read it and start to think why we are so unique.
This book will put you help to understand a little bit more:)
.
So basically women have billion nerve bond between the feeling center and speaking center.
usually, the brain difference shows up already at earlier ages.
Many of research has been shown and also there is an experiment about that fact.
ill describe this experiment a little:
It was about toddler, toddlers mother and how toddler act, when mother entire to the same room, but not gonna give attention to her child.
Se could only stay close to baby( there was glass between them).This experiment shows hows act boy and hows girl.
The baby boy started to crawl immediately to get to close his mother.
He wanted to get picked up by the mother, so he started to scratch this glass wall.
But little girl reaction was, she started to shout and she even didn't try to get his mother.
So this is the really big difference between women and man. And this is also the reason, why its so hard to understand each other.
But at least we should try it, and its really respectable if you just listen to your partner and just support.
Mars and Venus together forever, Jonh Gray
i recommend you to also read it and start to think why we are so unique.
This book will put you help to understand a little bit more:)
.
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