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Hingehaavad-miks valime omale just need vanemad?Is it true that we choose our parents and if then why?





Me tuleme siia maailma õppima.Selleks,et ennast arendada ,valime vanemad ,kes meid õpetavad.Samuti ka oma sõbrad,sugulased ja teised inimesed,kellega elus kokkupuutume.
Kui ma nűűd jārele mõtlen oma kogemusele siis olen aru saanud ja leppinud,et pidin kogema mahajãtmise tunnet.Seda selleks,et iseend rohkem vâârtustada ja armastama õppida eelkõige ennast.
Jah algul olid muud tunded.Oli viha,pettumus ,kurbus ja ma ei saanud aru ,miks.Miks ma pean kogema seda.Aga siis mõne ajapärast jõudis kohale ka vastus-raamatu nâol."Hingehaavad"Lise Bourbeau.Ta kirjutab,et ùleùldse ongi 5 erinevat kogemust ja hingehaava:alandamine,mahajätmine,hűlgamine,ebaõiglus ja reetmine.Ja tegelikult selleks,et hingehaavadest vabaneda peame neid tunnistama kõigepealt.
#Meiega samasoost vanema roll on õpetada meid armastama ja anda ka armastust edasi.Vastasoost vanema roll aga armastust vastu võtma ja kuidas olla armastatud.
#point selles,et mida sűgavam hingehaav seda rohkem tõmbad neid olukordi ligi,kus saad veel rohkem hűljatust tunda.




# We come here to learn about the world. In order to develop ourselves, we choose the parents who teach us. Also, our friends, relatives and other people to whom we are exposed to life.

When I have to talk about my experience, then I have understood and agreed that I had to experience a feeling of abandonment. This is to make yourself more self-confident and to love learning yourself first and foremost.

Yes, at first there were other feelings. There was anger, disappointment, sadness, and I did not understand why. Why do I have to experience it? But then, in a while, the answer-book came to the door. "

Heal Your wounds and find your true self- Finally a book that explains, why its so hard being yourself. Lisa Book
She wrote about there are 5 different experiences and breath spells: humiliation, abandonment, rejection, injustice and betrayal. And in fact, in order to get rid of breath, we must first admit it.
# The role of parenthood of the same person is to teach us to love and to give love again. The role of parenthood is to accept love and how to be loved.

#point is that the more sultry the breath-catching one, the more you fetch those situations where you can get even more stressful.



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