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Special edition about Love, relationship"What kind of love you want?Do you value your life and time.?




Yesterday I waited a bus at  the bus stop and I was thinking on my own thoughts, until suddenly I heard that somebody screaming (talking so loudly)Then I saw a man and women and , what was really annoying to hear was, that man shouted to her wife. They didn’t talk , or listening each other , they just screamed. This kind of moments putting yr thinking and makes me really sad,  cause  where is  respecting each other, where disappear listening?It shouldn’t be this way, that we treat our loves really terribly.
There is quates abot love ;"In every living there is the desire  For  love"Larence
So every human needs somebody by herside, and cannot be alone.This is what human needs.
Yes you can say. What are you talking , human can be alone aswell, yeah we can survive , but we are meant to be together, not alone.If human is alone , then they lose themselves.
But what kind  of is the  the main type ,what we are looking for???
In recent years scientsist from various disciplines have  labored to deepen our understanding of romantic love valuable insights have come from each area of research.Even some biologists contend that there is a certain “bio-logic”to courtship behaviour.Evolutionary view of love we instinctively select mates who will enhance the survival of the species. Example men are drawn to classically beautiful women, (ones with clean skin, red lips, bright eyes,shiny hair) and all this cause qualities indicate youth and robust health.
Women select mates different biological reasons- and this is cause youth and physical health are not essential.
Usually we all wanting to belive that marriage should be easy and natural- this is human nature to want a life without effort.”Getting the love you want “ Harville Hendrix.
But the reality is different. Nowdays the main problem , why we have so many divorces and people just give up so and get break is  changes here in this community. Man are not hunters anymore, and women corals.
To be in happy relationship means that you know your value.Also you know expectations, you had discussed it with yr partner, also you know norms, you are commitmet, yu give security and he/she gives it back to you.First you must love yourself then, somebody can love you back.
You put yourself on the first place, then comes yr husband(man), third children and 4th is yur parents, relatives.
And ofcourse really important is to find quality time, to be ready to give order, to give and share your wants.To have time for physical connection eachother, and to give recognition for yr partner.G. Chapman "The five languages of love"
Its really time to start to thinking do you value your life and time?But what about yr partner?Is he worth of you?Why we jump into relationship, sometimes just to be with somebody , and why we not take a time, and not to think , do we really need it and to get suffer.MAybe we should wait a little, try to start to value and love yrself first, and also to live our life first, then jes if love comes or not we can make decisioun.







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