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Enterning a new life and arriving to Finland/Sissesulandumine ja saabumine Soome

I waited the day of departure for almost half a year because actually all the bureaucracy started already in January, when I made a decision to start to do my voluntary work  abroad.So if anyone of my readers have got some plan in future and also want to do some voluntary work abroad,I recommend you to take a bit time for all that:)
Actually yesterday was very great and funny,it just started at home with packing my suitcases and then was a time to drive to the port.I had 2 suitcases and one rucksack and of course my handbag so I was like donkey with a heavy load.
On the ferry it was difficult to find some place to sit, because it was really full, but I was the lucky and i get a place to sit.When I arrived to Helsinki,I met my new host friend Anni. And then we just hang around in Helsinki and yesterday was also the Ravintola day where there was a big tent at the square  with different kind of food from around the world.And everybody could buy that food .Example :There was Spanish, Mexican, all European, Asian, Amrerican food.I took one tortilla,and that was so delicious.Its contained cheese,potatoes and eggs.After that we walked around again, and met some Anni´s flatmates,who is from in Spain. And then we went to the famous Karaoke pub in Helsinki. Anni is so friendly and cheerful girl, whit a big heart and we just sit there and heard local and English music.Anni says that I´m already very good at Finnish language ,and she thinks that my accent is lovely and so we talked ,one sentences in English,one sentences in Finnish.But was so funny.And then local men started to sit right at ours chairs and they also started to talk with us.They asked ,are you local,i said no I´m Estonian,then they said oh yes we know Estonia.They thought that its a nice place.
And then they asked us for  a dance, but there was no space for that so its just was funny ,when they tried and tried ,but they were not lucky.
The next day I had a day off, and I just sat at  one cafe  in Helsinki and just drunk a cup of coffee, and ate one ham sandwich.Later I met my roommate and we went to a shopping centre called Itäkeskus.I bought some clothes.The main thing  thing I like about being in Finland that the people are calmer and they now how to behave.They are more disciplined or something.They just don't push you into a corner if they want to go the same way.This is a big difference.Also Finnish people are slow and they always have time, they don't rush.Sometimes I think they are too slow:D
But I like that they are friendly and good-hearten and smiling all the time. And thanks to that ,I have to act same way as they do.My dear friends had called me this morning and that was really nice surprise,because when you speak all day in English or Finnish then its nice that I can speak a little bit in my tongue language:D funny is that when you have to speak English all day, then one moment you are starting to think also in English:D
Next day we arrived in the city witch its called Tampere, its very nice city which has got many lakes around there and the landscape was so amazing with a tiny mountains and hills.Finland is almost covered with forest like Estonia so for me its feeling like I´m back at home:D

People  here in the camp are very friendly and open-minded, we get along very well:) I  met  lots of new friendshere from different kind of places.For example: India,Spain, Germany,Macedonia and Uganda.

Ja nüüd see kõik eesti keeles.Ärasõidu päeva ootasin peaaegu pool aastat, sest kõik see asjaajamine algas juba jaanuaris, kui tegin otsuse , et tahan minna välismaale vabatahtlikuks.Kui keegi ka tahab minna siis soovitan ,võtta aega selleks vähemalt pool aastat ja rahulikult mõelda:)
Üldiselt möödus eilne päev lahedasti. Kodus pakkisin veel viimased asjad ja sõit sadamasse algas ilma probleemideta.Mul oli 2 kohvrit, seljakott ja käekott, niissiis olin nagu eesel oma kandekoormaga, aga kohale ma laeva jõudsin ja sain isegi istuma, kuigi suht raske oli kohta leida.Laev on ikka hullult täis, peaks ütlema. Aga kõik muu möödus suurepäraselt ja sadamas mind ootas mu host uus sõber, Anni, kes mind naeratades vastu võttis ja mu kohvri omale haaras:)Väga tore ja rõõmsameelne ning abivalmis tüdruk:)Vahetasime kontakte, kutsus mind veel külla, et ah kui satud Hesasse astu läbi:)Hängisime siis eilse päeva ringi, näitas mulle Helsingit , käisime ravintola päeval, kus on erinevad rahvusest telgid püsti pandud ja seal pakutakse erinevate maade toite.Nt India,Hiina, Jaapan, Hispaania, Türgi jne.Võtsime prooviks kurikuulsaid tortillasid ,mis lih sulasid suus ja olid suurepärased, need olid tetud kartulist,munast ja juustust ning hiljem sõime kana karriga, mis läks mul maksma 3eur.Ja kusjuures see oli korralik taldrikutäis ,sai kõhu täis ja veel nii odavalt.Siis läksime keskväljakule, seal nägi ta oma korterikaaslast hispaanlast ja me rääkisime juttu temaga ka.Hiljem suundusime karaoke pubisse, kus kohalikud mehed ei tahtnud meid rahule jätta, ja uurisid kus ma pärit olen, et kas olen soomlane,kuna vastasin neile juba soome keeles.Ütlesin, et ei ole kohalik, vaid eestlane.Siis imestasid, aga lisasid veel, et jah Eestit teame küll, ilus koht.Vot seda lauset oli tore kuulda)
Anni mainis ka mulle, et ma puhun juba päris nopeasti,jah mitte küll pikki lauseid , aga lühikesed tulevad juba välja.Eks kindlasti aitab kaasa eeltöö, mis sai Eestis tehtud.Veel lisas ta, et talle meeldib mu Eesti aktsent:Dnii, et asjad sujuvad heas suunas.
Järgmine päev käisin ringi ise Helsingis.Võtsin aja maha ,nautisin kohvikus kohvi ja võileiba.Hiljem saime Anniga kokku ja käisime Itäkeskuses shoppamas ja hängisime taas ringi.Mis mulle tohutult meeldib Soome juures on see , et inimesed on viisakad, sõbralikud ja naeratavad, keegi ei trügi ja kellelegil pole kiiret ,kõik sujub kuidagi rahulikult ja aeglaselt.Vahetevahel isegi liiga aeglaselt kui nt sul kiire ja siis keegi koperdab ees.Aga siin sa lihtsalt pead käituma samamoodi aeglaselt ja rahulikult ning viisakas olema.Sõbrad helistasid mulle ja nendega oli küll tore rääkida emakeeles.Sest kui terve päev räägin kas inglise või soome k siis ma juba hakkan inglise k mõtlema ka ja sõnad tulevad automaatselt:)Ja vahepeal lähevad keeled sassi, osad sõnad tulevad soome k ja sinna vahele suudan lajatada inglise k sõnu.Aga enam pole sellist asja, et sõnad tuleks vahele eesti k vms.Eile oli selline juhus, kus lambist tuli eesti k sõna vahele.Täna pole seda rohkem juhtunud:D
Nüüd  aga olen Tamperes ja siin on nagu nii vahva.Meid on kokku u 20 inimest ja erimaadest.Siin on palju mustimehi, aga just nendega ma saan kõige paremini läbi ja oleme väga head sõbrad. Seega leidsin siit omale sõpru.Igapäev toimuvad mingid workshopid , soome keel 4h, mängud jne.Interneti levi on samuti halb siin, sest oleme keset metsa kuskil maakohas.Aga siin on väga ilus ja inimesed on nii sõbralikud:)Nüüd ma juba keeli segi ei aja,automaatselt tuleb inglise k , ja tasapisi ka soome k.

Sorry, et ma siia inglise k kirjutasin, aga mul on lihtsam end väljendada selles keeles, kuna ma ei pea mõtlema, mida öelda tahan:DEesti keeles on veidi raske mõelda ja kirjutada.
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