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Kuidas ära tunda koolilapse depressiooni? How can recognize symptoms of child depression?



Kui olin u 12.a siis mu vanemad lahutasid enne seda 9-10.a õppisin ma koolis hästi.Enamus hinded olid 4,5d.Alles 11.a hakkasid hinded kolinal kukkuma. Tolajal keegi ei osanud mõelda, et kui õppeedukus langeb tegu võibolla depressiooniga. Aeti süüks see, et laps ei viitsi õppida, tegelikult aga tegu oli kurvameelsusega ja keskendumisraskustega.
Kuna lugu juhtus 1997.a umbes siis tol ajal sotsiaalpedagooge koolides ei olnud ja sa pidid ise hakkama saama oma hinnetega.

Millised võisid olla siis  depressiooni tunnused 10-12.a vanuselt?

#järsk õpiedukus langeb, pea ei suuda võtta, keskendumisraskused

#madal enesehinnang

#arglik, kartlik , abitu, viha, ärrituvus

#koolikaaslastega on probleemid, teda kiusatakse, narritakse, pole sõpru

#ta on kinnine ei taha rääkida oma asjadest, hoiab eemale sukeldub nt arvutisse, mobiili.

#valetab, varastab,  hoolimatu teiste suhtes

#väsinud ,tüdinenud , somaatilised vaevused, ärevus

#keeldub kooli minemast

#võib olla agressiivne

#probleemid suhtlemisel

#veedab päeva teleri ees, kõrvaklapid peas
# söögiisu langus

#kaebab kõhu, peavalu
#surmamõtted

When i was 12 years old my parents get divorced , but before when i got 10 then i didnt have  any problems with advancment  in school. The problem with advancment came when i got 11. In that time didnt know it can be depression disease, everybody thought its because laziness.
But actually we can call it continuous feelings of sadness and hopelessness and also i had problem with concentration and perception.
This story happened in about  1997. y and in that time in schoold didnt have teacher helpers or specialist and i had to manage all bymyself.
But here are symptoms of Depression


  • Irritability or anger
  • Continuous feelings of sadness and hopelessness
  • Social withdrawal
  • Increased sensitivity to rejection
  • Changes in appetite -- either increased or decreased
  • Changes in sleep -- sleeplessness or excessive sleep
  • Vocal outbursts or crying
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Fatigue and low energy
  • Physical complaints (such as stomachaches, headaches) that don't respond to treatment
  • Reduced ability to function during events and activities at home or with friends, in school, extracurricular activities, and in other hobbies or interests
  • Feelings of worthlessness or guilt
  • Impaired thinking or concentration
  • Thoughts of death or suicide


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